A Mother’s Unwavering Devotion to Her Child with Disabilities, Fueled by Love and Perseverance

A 29-year-old mother from England gave birth to a baby boy who has one arm, no legs, and a hand with a fused finger. She shared that she never considered abortion and proudly calls her son “absolutely perfect.”

Rosie Higgins, a special needs teacher from Harrow, London, was informed during her 20-week ultrasound that her son could have Amniotic Band Syndrome, a condition that affects the normal development of limbs.

Despite being questioned about whether she wanted to meet her son immediately, Rosie was “certain” that she would keep her son.

Henry Higgins was delivered via caesarean section. He has one arm and a hand with a fused finger. Currently, at 11 months old, Henry enjoys splashing in the bath and reaching out to his toys.

When Rosie learned about her son’s limb differences, she worried initially and felt sad. However, in her mind, she was always certain that she would keep her son, regardless of anyone’s advice.

The pregnancy period was challenging for Rosie. She had weekly ultrasounds, and each time, they evaluated something different. While working, she could distract herself, but when she had to stop and think, she became overwhelmed with worries about potential complications.

However, Henry is a happy child who is not hindered by his physical differences in any way. He has a bright smile and loves his older sister and younger brother.

“He may not have all his limbs, but he is perfect to me,” Rosie said.

Due to COVID-19 restrictions in 2020, Rosie’s mother, Paula, couldn’t support her daughter during the childbirth process. However, Rosie’s partner, Peter, stood by her side through the ultrasound appointments.

Rosie experienced mixed emotions when Henry was born. The midwives asked if she wanted to meet him immediately, and she was nervous about their first encounter.

Despite some questioned uncertainties, Rosie was overcome with love when she first met her little son. She acknowledged that he may always have some differences, but he will overcome any challenges and evolve as needed.

Henry is progressing well and shows early milestones. He can pick up objects, raise his head, and roll over without any issues.

He also babbles and communicates as if he’s holding a conversation. His babbling wakes Rosie up in the morning. Henry has a regular routine, going to bed at 7:30 pm and waking up at 6:30 am.

Rosie mentioned that Henry enjoys sitting in his high chair but cannot use a walker due to his lack of legs. He underwent surgery to improve his ability to use prosthetic limbs.

Additionally, Rosie has connected with an online community of parents of children with limb differences. Thanks to the support and shared experiences of others, Rosie has found joy and optimism in raising Henry.